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The art of taking yourself out

The Practice / July 30, 2026 / 6 min

The Table for One Is Not a Consolation Prize

Somewhere along the way we decided that eating alone in public was something that happened to you. It isn't. It's something you do.

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Field Notes

July 23, 2026 / 4 min

Dinner, Alone, at 6:15

The best table in any restaurant is available to exactly one kind of person, and it is not the one with a reservation for four. A practical argument for the early hour.

The Practice

July 16, 2026 / 5 min

The Phone Is the Third Wheel

You did not bring yourself out to dinner to watch someone else's evening. On the difference between being alone and being unaccompanied.

July 2, 2026 / 5 min

On Ordering the Expensive Thing

There is a specific flinch that happens when nobody is watching you spend money on yourself. On the economics of an audience of one.

Reservations

July 9, 2026 / 4 min

How to Take Yourself to a Movie

The beginner's date: two hours in the dark where nobody can see you doing it. A gateway, and an argument for the Tuesday matinee.

Dispatches

June 25, 2026 / 4 min

The Sunday Reset Is Not a Date

Laundry, meal prep, and a face mask are maintenance. Do not confuse the servicing of a life with the living of one.

The Date Was Me

You do not need a plus-one to make it a date.